Monday, June 20, 2011

The Perfect Storm

Our first season of sponsoring a Little League Team has come to a close and we couldn't be happier for our Team STORM.  Not only did they conduct themselves with excellent sportsmanship and poise under pressure at every game, but they capped off the 2011 season with the playoff VICTORY!  As evidenced by the pictures below, these ladies played their hearts out.  I couldn't be prouder to have my name on the backs of those jerseys!  Congratulations, girls.....


Photos by Tom Ciriello

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Father Figures

Growing up without a father in my life, I was not immune to feeling sorry for myself when Father's Day rolled around and I felt as if I was missing out on something.

As I've gotten older and reflected on my past and the people in it, I'm grateful for the realization that I've had amazing father figures at many stages of my life.

Photo by Peter Quinn
My mother raised my brother and me (by herself), to love each other unconditionally, to protect each other fiercely and to work tirelessly for what we felt was important.  She led by example when she instilled in us a strong work ethic and the belief that we were capable of anything we set our minds to.  She was both mother and father to us, and I realize now that I didn't miss a thing.


My brother was my confidante, my biggest supporter and my best friend growing up and he never once made me feel like a nuisance - even though being his little sister, I'm sure I was more often than not.  He taught me to stand up for myself, he gave me confidence and he made me feel loved and accepted throughout my childhood and well into adulthood.  He's been with me through every important milestone in my life - he's helped me pick up the pieces after my failures, he walked me down the aisle at my wedding and he was prouder than anyone when I succeeded. He was, and still is, one of the most important people in my life.


In my early 30's, I had the good fortune to meet a wonderful man who became my husband and the father of my daughter.  As I observe his relationship with her, I witness every day just what it's like to have a great father.  Someone who not only makes you feel safe and secure, but who puts band-aids on boo-boos, teaches you how to ride a bike, cuddles you when you're scared and makes you feel like the most important person in the world.


Luckily for me, with my husband also came a wonderful family, and my father-in-law has become my late-in-life father.  I am incredibly appreciative of his invaluable advice, his acceptance of my often unconventional decisions, his generosity, his unconditional support and love.  He is a stellar father and grandfather and quite frankly, I don't know what we'd do without him.

I've learned that fathers come in many forms and I've been blessed to have more than my share.

Happy Father's Day!